Jul 24 2007
Adam and Eve
I believe that a successful relationship requires two parties’ effort, and tend to view a person with a spouse (heterosexual or gay/lesbian) or long term partner more favorable than a singleton. It is often heard when someone is trying to match making, would make such common that the subject is never married, as is a strong plus. To me, it’s a negative sign, especially if the person is in late 30s or older. Making a happy family takes tremendous skills and comprises, and obvious the subject is lacking of those. Whenever I see someone with passable look and is still single, I think of over-confident, over-picky, perhaps prickly too. Good look does attract more glance, but what makes those glance stay is definitely not the appearance alone; rather your temperament, chemistry, intelligence, heart and soul. I don’t deny there is tiny percentage of people who’s happiest at being alone, like George Clooney, but .. ..
Man is like a vase and woman flower. They need each other, they compliment each other. I just found it is hard to believe if someone is truly attractive in many ways, then why hasn’t he or she been taken? Why no one is willing to commit? You’re picky? You’re being picked at the same time.